im not going to tell you to stop because you should do what makes you happy...just dont meet those people in real life. you talk to someone who pretends to be a 16 year old girl, and it is an obese 80 year old with **** down to her knees. i know i have no place telling you this because i dont know about anybody in your life, but try to work things out and dont make a habit of developing really good relationships with online people, because it will end in **** because you will never get to meet them (most likely)