I don't agree, we have too many babies having babies......   Just say NO!!!

Use your desire for motherhood to inspire and motivate you to make a strong career for yourself, so you will be able to give your child the best care.



I had my children long before I was financially prepared, and it's been a terrible struggle.  Once, when my daughter was hospitalized, I wanted to cry because I couldn't afford to have the TV turned on and all she wanted was to watch Sesame Street.  I can't afford to give her braces now, and she needs them.  Not being able to give your child--who you will love more than anyone in the world--what you feel they need is the most heartbreaking feeling in the world.  Don't let it happen to you.



And while you're at it, make sure you give them a good and worthy father, too.  Sharing your beloved children with someone who doesn't share your values, encourages them to be selfish, entitled, and less than they could be, is as heartbreaking as the other.  I can't even IMAGINE the horror of a loving parent who has to share rearing of a child with an abuser, and it does happen (you can't always identify the abusers right away).

u will be a wonderful mother one day and it's Ok to think about babies all day long.



Use the time between now and when you are married (and wait a few years to ensure your husband will support you) to learn about life so you can teach your little one.



As a parent your job is to teach them lifes lessons, you have about 10 years before you have that "ah ha moment - is that what life is all about".



I've just given birth to a baby and I was sobbing last night on my husband and handed the baby over to him because she was too much to handle - what you need to do is set your alarm every 2 hours and then stand up for 2 hours or walk around the house for 2 hours while squeasing your nipples really hard. Do this everyday for 6 weeks to see if you are ready just for the physical demands of mothering.



Emotionally you need to watch a sad documentary or sad movie all day everyday.



You need to consume food with bacteria for 16 weeks to understand the daily food poisening is the feeling most women experience during the first trimester of pregnancy (and many in the last  weeks of pregnancy) whilst working



I used to express my need to nurture by spoiling my husband with kisses and massages and then 6 years after we married we had our first baby.

the truth is you wont until you find something else to fulfill the void in your life, i am not being patronizing but women like yourself who crave children like this are looking for unconditional love.. other then a baby itself. what you need to do is to get yourself a  boyfriend that adores you, you are so young.. this is the time of your life you should be going out and enjoying yourself, without the responsibility of a little child!! heres an idea why dont you look at part time fostering a child, there are so many children out there desperate for some love and attention.. this will give you a taste of what it is to be a parent.. parenting is hard work, i have a 1 year old and a 2 year old and it is hard work!! i wish you all the best of luck, and please wait till your older before you decide to reproduce..